Are Your Goals Contributing to Your Failure Or Success?

By Anthony D Carter

Goals provide you with a valuable asset for increased motivation. But if you set them incorrectly they can lead to frustration and overwhelm. Your goals will only help you if you put some forethought into them. Here are 5 components of a good goal setting program.

1-Write Your Goals Down - Your goals become tangible when you write them down. This is a very important step that even moderately successful people neglect to do. When you write your goals down you automatically put yourself into the company of the top ten percent of achievers in the world.

A written goal provides you with direction and focus. When you have identified the target you are more apt to hit it. Your goals guide your daily activities. Without a written goal you wonder from one urgent activity to the next. You feel as though you are just spinning your wheels and not getting anywhere. Write your goals down and give your mind a target to hit and a predetermined direction to go towards.

2-Develop A Plan of Action – Goals should have plans which lead to their attainment. Because your goals are the target that you are striving to hit, they act as a compass which directs your every move. If you make step by step plans, in advance, which guide you to your desired objectives then you will protect yourself from distractions and procrastination. You will also eliminate confusion. It is easier to follow a plan than it is to wonder through life haphazardly flying by the seat of your pants. A plan helps you to stay grounded and steady as you progress towards the achievement of your goal.

3- Accept Support – There are people who can help you and there are people who can hurt you. The people who can hurt you are easy to identify. They are the ones who always put you down or express doubt that you can accomplish anything of significance. Avoid these people like the plague. Better yet, drop them like a bad habit. Do not spend time with them if you can help it.

You want to be around the other type of people. Perhaps there is an uncle, aunt, or close friend who has always believed in you. Or maybe there is someone that you trust who will give you honest feedback when you need it. Surround yourself with as many supportive people as possible. Actually if you only have one good friend who supports you the that is enough. Tell them what attempting to do. They will be happy to hear that you are striving to better yourself. They will most certainly offer to help you.

4- Maintain Balance – You should have goals in several areas of your life. You need financial goals, spiritual goals, relationship goals, personal goals, health(fitness) goals and business goals. In order to hit any of your goals you will need to endure. To maintain endurance you’ll need balance. You cannot last as long as is needed if you neglect the other areas of your life in order to be successful with one goal. When going after your goal in one area of your life be mindful of the other areas and give them some of your attention as well.

5 – Persist – Once you have the right goal and set about hitting it, never give up. So often the success that you want awaits you only one step away from your quitting. Do not quit. Stick with it. Even when it seems like you are failing you are actually succeeding. Success is like that sometimes.

With every attempt that you make to accomplish your goal you are growing. You are becoming more skilled and you are gaining confidence. Over time you will get more efficient and thus work less to get greater results. But, because you are in the heat of battle you may not notice all of these positive changes. Eventually they will tip the scale in your favor and culminate with you roaring past the finish line and achieving your objective.

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1 Comment »

  1. Comment by:
    Wayne

    Good post-

    I would add only two additional comments:

    A) Life is not static but ever chaning, evolving. Circumstances and events impact us everyday constantly reshaping our goals and aspirations in lfie. However many view goal setting as a one time event in life.

    At the minimum your SMART goals (short and long term) should be reviewed at least every 6 months or so to ensure your new SMART goals reflet your new goals in life.

    Lastly, you need to develop the faith and belief in yourself or in God that you will accomplish what you set out to accomplish. Irrespective of one’s spiritual or faith views/beliefs, everyone believes in someone or in something. If you can believe it-you can acheive it. Conversely, if you don’t believe you WILL-more likely than not you WON’T.

    Best-

    Wayne

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